A great leader leads his family first. My grandfather was that type of man. He was not someone who you would notice in a crowd or ask to lead a company. No, he was not one to be in the spotlight. But the thing he understood was the value of those around him.
This year marks 20 years since he has passed. It is fitting – and no way ironic – that the vision for my church home is Generational Blessings. My life has been blessed because it was set on a foundation that Milburn Brook Gann built.
It was never the big things that I remember fondly – it was the small things. For instance, how he planted a yellow rose bush – because I have blond hair – and, every time it bloomed, he’d bring me a rose. Or just sitting and listening to me talk as a very young child – hanging on every word. In those seemingly small acts, he taught me my value.
He was a man of character – a man who loved God. He set the standard for us who came after him.
So, you may be asking why do I decide to write to you about this person? Is it to brag on him a little? Partly, yes it is – because he deserves it. But it is also to outline the responsibility we all play to those around us. As my church leadership speaks on the importance of setting a great example for the next generation – I cannot think of a better example in my personal life.
To make an impact on the generations around me – I don’t need to be a successful business person or a person of great wealth. I just need to let those around me know how valuable they are. This could be in sincerely listening to people when they talk or tiny, yet meaningful acts of kindness or just spending quality time with someone who may need it. It doesn’t take much to impact the world. It just takes true effort.
I encourage you to watch your actions and understand the impact they have on others. If small acts of kindness can make a positive act on someone that lasts a generation – so can small acts of carelessness.
Be blessed, everyone.

